LES ATELIERS FABER ET MAZLISH TOKYO
Faber and Mazlish Parenting Workshops
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How to talk so kids will listen,
how to listen so kids will talk
Hello parents !
Are you enjoying parenting or are some of the challenges just getting the best of you?
Faber and Mazlish, the authors of the world wide bestseller 'How to talk so children will listen, how to listen so children will talk?' have created a series of 7 workshops that tackle all of the problems that parents encounter and help you build better, more harmonious relationships with your children.
Session 1 – Helping Children Deal with Their Feelings
Learn how to listen with empathy, acknowledge children's feelings, and respond in ways that help children understand and manage their emotions.
Session 2 – Engaging Cooperation
Explore practical alternatives to nagging, yelling, and repeated instructions. Learn communication tools that encourage children to cooperate while maintaining mutual respect.
Session 3 – Alternatives to Punishment
Discover ways to set limits and respond to difficult behavior without relying on punishment. Learn approaches that help children learn from their mistakes and take responsibility.
Session 4 – Encouraging Autonomy
Learn how to give children opportunities to make choices, solve problems, and develop independence while providing appropriate guidance and support.
Session 5 – Giving Praise and Encouragement
Explore the difference between praise and encouragement and how our words can influence children's confidence, motivation, and self-image.
Session 6 – Helping Children Handle Conflict
Learn practical strategies for resolving conflicts between parents and children—and between siblings—while respecting everyone's needs and feelings.
Session 7 – Putting It All Together
Review and integrate the communication skills learned throughout the workshop. Parents practice applying the tools to real-life situations and develop a personal approach for continuing to use them at home.
The workshop is highly experiential, combining discussion, role-play, examples from everyday family life, and opportunities to practice new communication skills. The goal is not to create "perfect" parents or children, but to give parents practical tools for communicating with greater empathy, cooperation, and respect.
As a trained Faber and Mazlish Workshop leader I will be conducting the series of 7 workshops.
If you would like to have the workshops presented at your school or organization, please contact me!
Gaelle
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Siblings without Rivalry
Six-Workshops for Parents
Helping siblings grow together with more understanding, cooperation, and connection.
Inspired by the work of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, this six-workshop series invites parents to explore practical ways to navigate sibling rivalry and create a more peaceful family environment.
Arguments, jealousy, competition, and complaints about fairness are common parts of family life. But how we respond to these moments can make a difference in how children understand their feelings, relate to one another, and find their place within the family.
Through reflection, discussion, and practical tools, we will explore how to move beyond everyday conflicts and support stronger sibling relationships.
What will we explore together?
Workshop 1 — Understanding Sibling Rivalry
Discover why siblings compete, argue, and seek their parents' attention. Explore the feelings behind sibling conflicts and how our responses can influence family dynamics.
Workshop 2 — Helping Children with Their Feelings
Learn how to listen with empathy, acknowledge difficult emotions, and help children feel understood—even when they express jealousy, anger, or resentment toward a sibling.
Workshop 3 — Freeing Children from Roles and Comparisons
Explore how comparisons, labels, and family expectations can affect children's relationships. Discover ways to recognize each child as a unique individual, without placing them in competition with one another.
Workshop 4 — Encouraging Cooperation Instead of Competition
Discover practical ways to respond to disagreements, reduce blame, and help children find solutions together. Learn how to guide conflicts without automatically taking sides.
Workshop 5 — Treating Children Fairly, Not Identically
Explore children's perceptions of fairness, favoritism, and parental attention. Discover how to acknowledge each child's individual needs while helping every child feel valued and important.
Workshop 6 — Managing Conflict and Building Connection
Bring together the ideas and tools explored throughout the series. Learn how to respond to conflict with greater confidence, establish healthy boundaries, encourage responsibility, and support children in repairing their relationships.
What can you expect from the workshops?
Throughout the six sessions, you will have opportunities to:
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Better understand the emotions and needs behind sibling rivalry.
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Discover practical ways to communicate with your children.
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Explore everyday family situations in a supportive environment.
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Reflect on your own responses to sibling conflict.
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Develop strategies that you can put into practice at home.
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The workshops combine discussion, reflection, and practical exercises. There is no expectation to be a perfect parent—only an opportunity to learn, experiment, and discover what works for your family.
Who are these workshops for?
These workshops are for parents and caregivers who want to better understand sibling relationships, whether their children argue frequently, struggle with jealousy, compete for attention, or simply need support in learning to live together more harmoniously.
You do not need to wait until conflicts become overwhelming to benefit. The workshops offer an opportunity to build skills and understanding that can support family relationships over time.
A different way forward
The goal is not to eliminate every disagreement or make siblings get along all the time.
It is to create an environment where children can express their feelings, feel valued for who they are, learn to navigate disagreements, and develop greater respect for one another.
Join us for six workshops dedicated to understanding our children, strengthening our parenting skills, and nurturing more peaceful sibling relationships.
About Me
I am Gaelle a French certified Sophrologist and well-being coach and certified Faber and Mazlish Workshop Leader. I have over 13 years working with small children in preschool settings and opened my practice 5 years ago. I have been running the faber and Mazlish workshops for the past 10 years for the French and English-speaking communities of Tokyo.
You can find out more on my website: Sophrology and NLP Therapist and Well Being Coach Tokyo
Previous sessions
- Ohana International School
- Nishimachi International School
- Saint Mary's International School
- Willowbrook International School
- Summerhill International School
- Arisugawa Ikki Ikki Plaza
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